When your baby’s first molars start to appear, you may notice some of the familiar signs of tooth eruption. You may notice drooling or a habit of trying to chew on hard objects. If you look at the gums, you may see that the tissue looks red and tender. These are signs that the molars are getting ready to make an appearance.

Since the first molars are larger than the incisors, this round of teething may be more uncomfortable for your baby. As the molars pass through the gums, your baby may become very cranky, even if he or she is normally easygoing. He or she may have trouble sleeping through the night and may refuse to eat. This can be very stressful for both you and your baby, but remember that this phase doesn’t last long.

There are plenty of things you can do to keep your baby (and you) happier and more comfortable as the first molars erupt. Give your child a rubber teething ring to chew on. The pressure helps to ease gum pain. You can chill the teething ring in the refrigerator before you give it to your baby, but never freeze it. Frozen teething rings can injure your baby’s delicate oral tissues and worsen the discomfort, explains the American Academy of Pediatrics.

Giving your baby a gum massage can also help ease pain. To perform a massage, simply rub the sore gums with your clean finger. This works by helping to counteract the pressure from the erupting first molar.

Cold foods and drinks can also help ease the pain of sore gums. If your baby will tolerate it, try filling his or her bottle with cold water to help numb the gums. Foods like chilled applesauce, yogurt or ice pops are also good choices. Since sugars can cause tooth decay, try to limit these cold foods to meal times, and brush your child’s teeth afterward.

If your baby is very uncomfortable and you’re having trouble soothing him or her, schedule a dental appointment. The dentist can examine your baby’s mouth to determine if there are any issues that require treatment. He or she may be able to give you tips to keep your baby more comfortable.

Teething is a normal part of a baby’s development, and in no time, your baby will have a full set of teeth.